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Foundational Principles
Biblical principles are foundational
to our approach to conflict resolution.
Here are some of the key principles underlying the process.
Each of us has a choice in responding to conflict. We seek to get to the heart of what drives
people's choices and encourage people to accept responsibility for their choices and the impacts of such choices (Matthew
7:5)
Conflicts have one or more root causes that stem from motives, attitudes and idols.
(James 4:1-3) Motives do not have to be inappropriate to lead to conflict - just more important than how we are to live in
relationship with each other.
Respectful and grace filled communication is essential to productive dialogue
about a dispute. (Ephesians 4:29-32) This includes not only how we speak but how we listen to each other. (Proverbs 18:13)
Respectful communication involves seeking understanding of the other person's perspective with an open mind and communicating
one's own perspective with words and manner that facilitate the other party's willingness to listen. (Proverbs 12:18)
The interests of all impacted by the conflict must be considerd. (Philippians 2:3-4)
Openness to forgiveness
and reconciliation promotes resolution. (Matthew 5:23-4) Approaching others with a forgiving rather than a judgmental spirit
is key to opening opportunity for peace. (Colossians 3:12-15)
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